After considerable thought I have come to the conclusion that maybe means no. Period. If I am ambivalent about acquiring something, I am simply not ready or it is not the right thing.
One day I went clothes shopping with a dear friend. What struck me was how many times the word maybe came up. So I offered that maybe’s definition for the day, simply meant no. Perhaps it wasn’t as strong a no as NO, but this day it was still nada. No go.
Guess what? It made the whole process easier. If less really is more, then we should only want the things we say yes to and not maybe. Such a relief!